After a really busy, hectic week, our weekend trip was completed successfully on Saturday.
Just as well we got it all done Saturday. Sunday, we had cool, damp weather that never got out of the 30s. But for most of Saturday, we enjoyed weather in the 60s and even the low 70s early in the day. For Monday and Tuesday, about a foot of very heavy snow is predicted for our area. That's April for you.
We had been planning to visit S and her husband for a long time, but the story took on new urgency last Sunday, when S wrote and told me that her husband was looking very good for a new job--but their car had just been diagnosed with a cracked block. Not a good thing when your new job is 30 miles away.
Their car had been ailing for some time, and last fall I reminded them that my mom's car was still sitting in her garage, unused since she went to the nursing home in late 2005. If you need it, I said. We'll see, she said. That was the last time we talked about it until last Sunday.
Her plan was that I drive them north when we go home, so they can get the car. Monday, I was busy putting the paper together all day, but I called around to a garage that could help us.
Tuesday, we drove down to the house, then called the garage to send out a flatbed wrecker to pick up the car and take it to the garage. (Its battery was dead, and the gas had been sitting in the tank for three years.) I told the garage to give it an oil change, lube, coolant change, fluids, and give the car a once-over. We visited my mom and got the car keys from her. Had a nice visit, too.
I knew where the title was--at our house. It was made out to my dad (who died in 1994) "or" my mom. The title had been mailed to them in 1988. It cost the state 18 cents to send the business envelope. But I had to call the Wisconsin DMV to find how to fill out the title, since my mom couldn't sign it.
But I have power of attorney. I went to the state's website, e-mailed in a question, got a reply that asked me to call so-and-so. I called Madison, got connected to the right person, explained the situation, gave them the VIN number, they went to their computer and told me how it should be done.
Keys? My mom had a set. But I had seen another set when we were cleaning out the house in '07. I remembered it was in my mom's dresser, in a wooden box that said "Canasta Cards" on it. We looked through all the boxes we had taken to our house from hers. We found some other wooden boxes, but they had jewelry inside. Finally we found the Canasta Cards box. Yep, there are the keychains. Yep, there are the extra car keys.
Wednesday, I was out of town all day for a track meet out of town. Thursday, I called the garage to check in. The car would be ready. But they close at noon on Saturday, and there was no chance I could get S and her husband there by then. So on our trip south Friday morning, I stopped at the garage and paid the bill for their service and the towing ($267; it has also needed a muffler and tailpipe, besides the battery) and got the key back. The car stayed at their lot; that's where we would pick it. Just as well--I had let the license plates and the insurance lapse several years ago.
We got to Oshkosh Friday afternoon and went to S's house right away. About a half hour later, her husband and I went to the state DMV office with my mom's car's title. He filled out the forms, turned over the title, wrote out a check and got the new plates. At some point, he handed over our agreed-upon price for the car. At the DMV office, he had to pay the sales tax on the purchase price. $25 * 6% = $1.50.
The rest of Friday was more relaxing. We went to Golden Corral for supper with their grandson, who is staying with them. It's an all-you-can-eat buffet; we ate well. From there, we went to our motel's swimming pool. I spent some time in the pool but more time in the nearby whirlpool, enjoying the warm, bubbly waters and loving the way it felt on my tired back.
All four of the adults spent most of their time there, but I also spent time in the pool, horsing around with their grandson, who wanted me to go under the surface time after time. Then I had to do the deadman's float--and he climbed up on my back. Later on, though, some teenage girls got into the pool and started playing volleyball without a net, and he decided that was much more interesting. I gratefully returned to the whirlpool.
On Saturday morning, my wife and I made the only shopping stops of the trip: at Hobby Lobby (fabrics) and Fashion Bug. Then to S's house. From there, we went to the Oshkosh museum for the original main reason for the trip: a exhibit of
contemporary quilts called "This Is Not Your Grandmother's Quilt." Many interesting quilts and designs. The only downfall was that they weren't lighted that brightly, and I wanted to take pictures by existing light. But I took a few pictures, and once I can find the time, I'll post some of them soon.
At some point that morning (don't remember if it was before or after the museum visit), S gave both me and my wife reiki back massages. She had converted her front porch into a massage area, with wall hangings, incense, candles, running water, CDs of relaxing music and a really nice massage table. She sure didn't have to twist my arm. I loved it, as she is a good masseur. My wife even decided on a massage, and she loved it, too.
Then, the long trip north. It's about 140 miles away, about three hours more or less. We talked, looked at the scenery (the leaves still have not opened, and the landscape is pretty brown right now), but the highlight was near the end.
I decided to play them a CD on my iPod named "Halloween Stomp," which is full of fun Halloween/ghost/"spooky" music from decades past. One was "With Her Head Tucked Underneath Her Arm" by Stanley Holloway, about Anne Boleyn, who supposedly walks the Tower of London by night with ... well, as the title says.
S recognized the tune instantly and started singing along. "A gal I used to sing with did that one," she told me later. "I haven't heard it in years, so it was a fun treat for me as well."
Finally, we reached our destination. They had brought along the title, plates, some Heet and some octane booster. We drove to the garage, they put the Heet in the gas tank, replaced the license plates got inside and turned the key. It started. I followed them to a gas station, where they put some high octane gas in the tank plus the octane booster. From there, I refreshed them on the route back home. (They could take one highway all the way south.) Then it was time for some hugs and kisses, their car turned east, and ours turned west. An hour later, we were home.
They finally got home between 8 and 9. They were tired, S wrote, but the car ran very well for them.
That made me happy. It had been a very tiring week for me, with many extra things to do. It was stressful, trying to get everything done, trying to remember everything I had to do and everything I had to bring.
I guess I did OK. They are happy, and they have a decent car again. That's what matters.